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Gynecological Exams / Tests

First Period (Menarche)

First Period: Mother and Daughter

The order of puberty

In girls, puberty usually begins with breast budding (thelarche). This happens at around 8.5–10 years on average. Next come pubic hair, a growth spurt and, finally, the first period. The period is expected around Tanner stage IV of breast development, that is, after breast tissue has become clearly visible. A period before any breast development is rare and is investigated.

The hypothalamic–pituitary–ovarian axis is quiet during childhood. At puberty, the pulsatile activity of kisspeptin and GnRH neurons increases. LH and FSH rise, and the ovaries produce estrogen. The endometrium thickens and the first bleeding occurs. In the first years, cycles are often anovulatory; regular ovulation settles within 1–3 years.

When will the first period come? (a tool for mothers)

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  • Use the three sliders to choose your daughter's age, the age her breast budding began (leave it at the far left for “not started yet”) and your own age at your first period.
  • The dark green band shows the expected window: if the budding age is known, budding + 2–3 years; the mother's age shifts the window slightly.
  • If budding is unknown, the window is derived from the mother's age (average around 12–12.5).
  • The green background is the usual range of 11–14 years; the red backgrounds are before age 9 and after age 15.
  • If the marker on the right turns into a warning, evaluation is needed: no period at 15, no breast development at 13, 3 years since budding, or budding before age 8.

This is an illustrative tool; it shows a waiting window, not a prediction. Evaluation is done by examination.

The order of puberty (a tool for mothers)

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  • Use the slider to choose your daughter's age.
  • The rows in order: breast budding (age 8.5–10), pubic hair, growth spurt, first period (usual 11–14, average 12–12.5) and settling of the cycle (1–3 years after the first period).
  • The dark part is the usual start, the light part is the waiting limit; the red backgrounds are before age 8 and after age 15.

This is an illustrative tool. The ranges for pubic hair and the growth spurt are drawn according to their order in the literature; evaluation is done by examination.

What to expect with the first period

The amount and length of bleeding vary from person to person. For most girls, the first bleeding is light or moderate and lasts 3–7 days. About 3–6 pads or tampons a day are needed. There may be pain; it usually increases or decreases during the first year. In the first 1–2 years, the cycle length may vary between 21 and 45 days. A gap of more than 90 days, or bleeding that lasts longer than 7 days or soaks a pad in 1–2 hours, needs evaluation.

In early cycles, ovulation does not happen every time. So although the risk of pregnancy may seem low, a pregnancy test should be considered if she is sexually active. Having periods does not prove that ovulation happens regularly every month.

The First-Period Talk: Mother and Daughter
A smiling mother and daughter holding hands: talking early and openly about the first period eases a girl's worries.

First-period kit (animation)

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  • Two pads, spare underwear, wet wipes, a small bag and a pain reliever go into a small pouch.
  • The pouch is placed in the school bag.
  • Pack the kit together with your daughter; a ready kit turns the first period into a plan, not a panic.

This is an illustrative animation. Tap to pause or resume.

How to use a pad (animation)

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  • Wash your hands.
  • Take the pad out of its wrapper.
  • Place the sticky side and the wings on the underwear.
  • Change the pad every 4–6 hours.
  • Wrap the used pad and throw it in the bin.
  • Wash your hands again.

This is an illustrative animation. Tap to pause or resume.

When to see a doctor

The following situations need evaluation:

  • No breast development at all by age 13
  • No period 3 years after breast development began
  • No period at all by age 15
  • Breast development or clear signs of puberty before age 8
  • A period before age 9
  • Cycles still shorter than 21 days or longer than 45 days more than 2 years after the first period
  • Bleeding that lasts longer than 7 days, soaks a pad in 1–2 hours or comes with large clots
  • Severe pain that prevents daily activities
  • Marked hair growth, rapid weight change, milk-like discharge from the breasts or vision problems

These thresholds are consistent with ACOG and pediatric endocrinology guidelines. If there is a family history of late puberty, the waiting time may be somewhat longer; still, the age-15 limit and the age-13 limit for no breast development apply.

Downloadable documents for mothers

Two documents you can print and use:

How do I start the first-period talk?

10 sentences for mothers, a box for fathers, when to see a doctor and what is normal in the first years (2 pages, PDF).

Download PDF

Parent note template for school

Two cut-out parent notes for PE, swimming and toilet permission (1 page, PDF).

Download PDF

Possible causes of a late first period

Causes of primary amenorrhea (never having a period) fall into a few groups:

  • Hypothalamic–pituitary: intense exercise, low body weight, eating disorders, chronic illness, stress, some medicines
  • Ovarian: Turner syndrome (45,X), primary ovarian insufficiency, polycystic ovary syndrome (later on)
  • Anatomical: imperforate hymen, transverse vaginal septum, Müllerian agenesis (MRKH), androgen insensitivity
  • Other: thyroid disease, hyperprolactinemia, excess androgens from the adrenal glands

The first step in evaluation is the history, height and weight, Tanner staging, pelvic ultrasound and basic hormones (FSH, LH, estradiol, TSH, prolactin). If needed, chromosome analysis or MRI is planned. SoftCare is not a pediatric endocrinology center; initial gynecological evaluation and referral can be provided.

Early first period

Breast development before age 8 is evaluated for precocious puberty. A period before age 9 is considered early menarche. Causes include central precocious puberty, excess hormones from a peripheral source (adrenal glands, ovarian cyst, exogenous estrogen) and familial early puberty. Bone age, hormone tests and, when needed, a GnRH stimulation test are used to tell these apart. An early period can stop growth in height early; that is why prompt evaluation is recommended.

Irregular cycles in the first years

In the first 1–2 years after menarche, cycles are often irregular. Intervals of 21–45 days are considered normal. After the third year, the interval settles at 21–35 days in most girls. If gaps of more than 90 days, heavy bleeding or severe pain continue, the cause is investigated. Polycystic ovaries, thyroid disease or a bleeding disorder may first appear during this period.

Periods After the First Period
A mother carrying her daughter piggyback: a mother's support matters while cycles are still irregular in the first years.

Our approach at SoftCare

At SoftCare Clinic, we provide gynecological evaluation for the first period and for irregular periods during adolescence. The history covers the mother's age at menarche, the growth curve, weight change, exercise intensity and chronic illness. The examination is planned according to age and symptoms; a pelvic exam is not mandatory. The uterus and ovaries can be assessed with ultrasound. Basic hormone tests may be requested.

If delayed puberty, precocious puberty or an anatomical anomaly is suspected, we refer to pediatric endocrinology or pediatric surgery. In case of heavy bleeding or anemia, iron supplements and, if needed, hormonal treatment are discussed. The treatment decision is made after examination and tests.

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References

  1. Committee Opinion No. 651: Menstruation in Girls and Adolescents: Using the Menstrual Cycle as a Vital Sign. American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG). Obstetrics & Gynecology 126(6), 2015.

Medically reviewed by Op. Dr. Şükrü Sanus, Obstetrician & Gynecologist · Last medical review: